Ellen Yu had this in English :
贏家 vs. 輸家
Winner vs. Loser
Winners are those who solve problems.
Losers are those who use problems as excuses.
Winners always have plans.
Losers always have excuses/reasons.
Winners often say, “Will you let me help?”
Losers often say, “That’s none of my business”
Winners think that there’s an answer to each question.
Losers think that there’s a question within each answer.
Winners often say,“ Though it might be a little difficult, it still can be done.”
While losers say,” Though it could be done, it is still too difficult.”